My reply was, I feel that I have to say I'm a Mexican since the term Hispanic is an generalized term for, Cubans, Puerto Ricans, Colombians, Mexicans etc. and the term Mexican I use that to specify which subgroup I am under. The reason I don't say I'm Mexican-American because when you start to hyphenate things, people in your subgroup start to think you are turning into a "Gringa" and that you are straying away from your roots." I went on to say that the more generational American you are the more you start blending the two together.
I also discussed the funny looks my fiance (Who is White) and I will get from both Whites and Hispanics. I don't consider us a in interracial couple, but society may. Back in Texas seeing a White and a Hispanic person together is very common. Here in South Georgia, it is a different story.
Tell me what you think about my response? I'd like your opinion and if you have ever been in a situation where you had to be an "Expert" of your own ethnicity?
Thanks!!
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We (my mexican husband and i) get looks all the time. We've been together over 10 yrs and honestly i think we automatically block it out unless it's an older white couple or someone who just can not take their eyes off of us or looking at us in disgust, then i just give him a GIANT BESO and grab his hand! Sometimes for fun, after me kissing him, i'll wink at the couple I feel are giving us innapropriate looks. It's fun!
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